Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?joekerr31 said:you dont ask. you slide your hand in her pants and start fingering her.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
if she lets you fingerbang her im sure she'll be ok with you penisbang her also.big_jeffry said:so you're saying if she lets me finger her, she will more than likely let me bang her
base 1 - kissing~attrACTION~ said:I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?
joekerr31 said:base 1 - kissing
base 2 - feeling her up (boobs)
base 3 - everything but penetration
home run - sex
grand slam - she sucks your wang after you've been in her OR she asks you to blow your load on her face.
but then again, im in my 30s, the bases might have changed with the younger crowd.