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I have seen some girls are so shy that they become nervous and start giggling while talking then trying to move away so how do you think i can make them comfortable around me?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Reported to the SVU department. Watch yourself, OP...
 

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Reported to the SVU department. Watch yourself, OP...
don't worry bro. most of your american SVU departments are busy trying to figure out their genders among the 500+ genders and saving their children from the next school shooting event in their school so they won't come after me
 

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I have seen some girls are so shy that they become nervous and start giggling while talking then trying to move away so how do you think i can make them comfortable around me?
If you stop trying to make anyone do anything, you may find that your problems start to fix themselves.
 

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I think the past several threads you've made on how to talk with girls should suffice?

Look, don't go out of your way to treat them differently necessarily, but if they are genuinely shy you need to know how to open those type of people up. Be warm and personable. Aim to be disarming in your demeanor without being a soy boy.

Also, many guys THINK girls that are 'shy' and 'nervous' around them are interested... Well more often than not those signs alone mean squat.

Being nervous and remaining reserved around people is often a defense mechanism more so then an attraction to said people. There has to be more to go of off and you need to be able discern interest in other ways as well. Eye contact, body language, tone, etc... It isn't hard
 

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I think the past several threads you've made on how to talk with girls should suffice?

Look, don't go out of your way to treat them differently necessarily, but if they are genuinely shy you need to know how to open those type of people up. Be warm and personable. Aim to be disarming in your demeanor without being a soy boy.

Also, many guys THINK girls that are 'shy' and 'nervous' around them are interested... Well more often than not those signs alone mean squat.

Being nervous and remaining reserved around people is often a defense mechanism more so then an attraction to said people. There has to be more to go of off and you need to be able discern interest in other ways as well. Eye contact, body language, tone, etc... It isn't hard
i take flirting eyes with a little bit of giggling as a sign of interest but her asking me questions and getting in a close distance to me are signs of interest as well
 

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gotta act coy and easy going.. act a little goofy and a little nervous. its easy to do if you are already naturally nervous

brad pitt in the 80s and 90s aws like this.. he was naturally nervous and fidgety but it made girls so comfortable aroun dhim.. he had a very boyish vibe
 

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The same way you'd talk to any other girl?

The more you talk to women, the more you realize they are far more similar than different.
 

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I have seen some girls are so shy that they become nervous and start giggling while talking then trying to move away so how do you think i can make them comfortable around me?
Stay in frame. Lead the conversation. Keep it lighthearted and make assumptions about her so it forces her to either accept them and be impressed or deny them and explain
 
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