“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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how to talk to a woman in a group?

picard

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How do I talk to a woman when she is with 2 more female friends at the party? Should I talk in someway to separate her from the others ? should I talk to all 3 of them then focus slowly on 1 person so the others get the body language cues to leave the area. I encounter this problem often but don't know what to do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would either wait until she is alone, which does'nt always happen, or approach the entire group with her as the focus point. With the latter, you will find out quickly if it is a situation condusive to pick up. Or you could just go up to her and ask her to dance ( assuming that there is dancing at this place). It is more important just to do it ( approach) than to worry about how to. It is really not up to you whether you get accepetd or rejected, but it is your responsibility to make the approach.
 

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I'm pretty sure there's posts about this in the DJ Bible, so check that out.

The one thing I've noticed is, if you focus on 1 girl and its obvious you're only interested in her, you're shooting yourself in the foot. The other girls will find a way to c0ckblock you.
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
I'm pretty sure there's posts about this in the DJ Bible, so check that out.

The one thing I've noticed is, if you focus on 1 girl and its obvious you're only interested in her, you're shooting yourself in the foot. The other girls will find a way to c0ckblock you.

I did check the DJ bible. There is no mentioned how to talk to a woman while she is in female group. :(
 

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I'm very interested in some tactics too, especially in recurring daily encounters where groups of girls are found, i.e. the mall.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its not only the piggys who c-block, but good lookin friends, avg looking friends, fuglies. and the pigs...

I think it is easier to chat with a pair of girls. I did last night, but we were in a situation where we were all forced together by circumstance, and all had a similar problem.......
 

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Entertain and talk to all of them. If you try to single one of them out, some how it always fails (girls don't help each other out). So if it's possible to build rapport with the group first then approach the one you're interested in ("hey how do you know those other friends? are you close? etc).
 
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