"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to take back our power?

What to do with a "tease" or attention W*res?

  • Ignore her completely

    Votes: 6 66.7%

  • Be friends and ask her to help us so we can be more attractive

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Be really "harsh" and show her that with DJs no one plays with!

    Votes: 3 33.3%
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Phonenix DJ

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Dear Djs.

As everybody here I was an AFc. After reading some posts,DYD material, and doc's love material I developed my game!

I started to be really confident, CF, I was saying beaultiful things and so forth!

So there was a girl that was attracted to be by "my game", my personality and maybe by my image also!
But the problem is that she had a boyfriend for 4 years and wouldnt leave him for me!

Another main problem is that I fell in love and said some "childish" things... We study togheter and now, we are "friends" ( Im really not interested anymore)


MY IMAGE WAS BROKEN!

Once she said ("teasing" me):

I was childish!

Because of my goatee beard I was looking like a man!

She called me "baby boy"

etc!


Im really lost. THe problem is that this girl is very pop and has a huge influence on other people, so she may be a "menace" to me!

How can I restore my past image? ( Im feeling really demotivated, and without solutions! )

How to take back our power?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wonderbread166

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umm... You're feeling depressed because some girl (that you say you're not interested in) called you childish? Come on, you've got to be above this. She's going to use her influence and tell everyone that you're childish? Is that all she's got? You really didn't say what it was that you said, but it really isn't important. You can't let your image be dependent on some biotch.

You want the power? Well, you could start by assuming the position. She teases you, tease her back. Don't take her shyt, and she'll respect you for it. From the small amount of information you said about her behavior towards you, it sounds to me like she's at least a little interested. You're way paranoid about a tiny, tiny thing that she said that doesn't mean a damn thing.

WB
 
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Phonenix DJ

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Good reply

You said:

"You want the power? Well, you could start by assuming the position. She teases you, tease her back. Don't take her shyt, and she'll respect you for it."

Yeah! Youre right!

By the way, this girl seem to be a real tease! She has a BF, thats why I dont believe she has any interest in me!

Its not easy but im gonna try to stand up for myself!
Any more suggestions, Ill appreciate!

Phonenix (from TX)
 
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biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by Wonderbread166
umm... You're feeling depressed because some girl (that you say you're not interested in) called you childish? Come on, you've got to be above this. She's going to use her influence and tell everyone that you're childish? Is that all she's got? You really didn't say what it was that you said, but it really isn't important. You can't let your image be dependent on some biotch.

You want the power? Well, you could start by assuming the position. She teases you, tease her back. Don't take her shyt, and she'll respect you for it. From the small amount of information you said about her behavior towards you, it sounds to me like she's at least a little interested. You're way paranoid about a tiny, tiny thing that she said that doesn't mean a damn thing.

WB
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I agree with wonderbread.
 
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DJ Alejandro

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my personal opinion is that i think you may be a little paranoid here. stop worrying too much.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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