"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to take a rejection?

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skinnydart

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When you are rejected for a phone number/date, and it's a definate "not interested" responce, not just a test, what's the best thing to say before leaving?

Also, when you see them in class/in the hall every day, what do you do?

- Ignore them?
- Say 'hi' just like u did before you asked her out?
- Ask her out again/if she's changed her mind?
- Make a joke of it/use sarcasm (e.g. while seeing her alone: "still alone and without a boyfriend I see?")

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grey Fox

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Hey she saved you the trouble of finding out after 3 months and countless dollars wasted that she does not deserve to be your girl. Just treat her like anyone else, and if she thinks anything different just tell her its in her head.

-Grey Fox
 
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DJnomore

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Rejection==success

Being rejected is a measure of you being the man and moving that much closer to what you want.

Only if you are all AFC over that particular girl is rejection bad.

Don't get me wrong you always want them to say yes but the reality is that when they say no up front they are saving you time.

I find that walking away with a smile on your face is the best way.
 
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