"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to take a rejection?

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skinnydart

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When you are rejected for a phone number/date, and it's a definate "not interested" responce, not just a test, what's the best thing to say before leaving?

Also, when you see them in class/in the hall every day, what do you do?

- Ignore them?
- Say 'hi' just like u did before you asked her out?
- Ask her out again/if she's changed her mind?
- Make a joke of it/use sarcasm (e.g. while seeing her alone: "still alone and without a boyfriend I see?")

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grey Fox

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Hey she saved you the trouble of finding out after 3 months and countless dollars wasted that she does not deserve to be your girl. Just treat her like anyone else, and if she thinks anything different just tell her its in her head.

-Grey Fox
 
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DJnomore

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Rejection==success

Being rejected is a measure of you being the man and moving that much closer to what you want.

Only if you are all AFC over that particular girl is rejection bad.

Don't get me wrong you always want them to say yes but the reality is that when they say no up front they are saving you time.

I find that walking away with a smile on your face is the best way.
 
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