"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to take a rejection?

skinnydart

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When you are rejected for a phone number/date, and it's a definate "not interested" responce, not just a test, what's the best thing to say before leaving?

Also, when you see them in class/in the hall every day, what do you do?

- Ignore them?
- Say 'hi' just like u did before you asked her out?
- Ask her out again/if she's changed her mind?
- Make a joke of it/use sarcasm (e.g. while seeing her alone: "still alone and without a boyfriend I see?")

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grey Fox

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Hey she saved you the trouble of finding out after 3 months and countless dollars wasted that she does not deserve to be your girl. Just treat her like anyone else, and if she thinks anything different just tell her its in her head.

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DJnomore

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Rejection==success

Being rejected is a measure of you being the man and moving that much closer to what you want.

Only if you are all AFC over that particular girl is rejection bad.

Don't get me wrong you always want them to say yes but the reality is that when they say no up front they are saving you time.

I find that walking away with a smile on your face is the best way.
 
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