"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so a while back i posted a thread about going for this girl, but i've decided not to because i know how she is now.

some background: we're like really good friends, we've been friends since 8th grade(we're in 10th now) and we talk often.

has anyone else had this problem? having feelings for like their best friend? what did you guys do to like get rid of the feeling?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you get out there and you meet some one else and you go out with them and have a blast and those feelings for your best friend will subside.
once you mix those kind of feelings with your best friend, things are never the same.
you either stay together forever and call yourselves true loves and soul mates and go to reunions together or you end up breaking up because timing isnt in your favor and the friendship severs.
 
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what she's trying to say is...

It'll RARELY work, and by rarely, it's like winning the full lottery.

Why do I say that, because I'm a fool for falling for my close friends...
 
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