"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so a while back i posted a thread about going for this girl, but i've decided not to because i know how she is now.

some background: we're like really good friends, we've been friends since 8th grade(we're in 10th now) and we talk often.

has anyone else had this problem? having feelings for like their best friend? what did you guys do to like get rid of the feeling?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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you get out there and you meet some one else and you go out with them and have a blast and those feelings for your best friend will subside.
once you mix those kind of feelings with your best friend, things are never the same.
you either stay together forever and call yourselves true loves and soul mates and go to reunions together or you end up breaking up because timing isnt in your favor and the friendship severs.
 
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what she's trying to say is...

It'll RARELY work, and by rarely, it's like winning the full lottery.

Why do I say that, because I'm a fool for falling for my close friends...
 
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