"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to stop talking to a girl

jedimindtricks

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so a while back i posted a thread about going for this girl, but i've decided not to because i know how she is now.

some background: we're like really good friends, we've been friends since 8th grade(we're in 10th now) and we talk often.

has anyone else had this problem? having feelings for like their best friend? what did you guys do to like get rid of the feeling?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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penkitten

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you get out there and you meet some one else and you go out with them and have a blast and those feelings for your best friend will subside.
once you mix those kind of feelings with your best friend, things are never the same.
you either stay together forever and call yourselves true loves and soul mates and go to reunions together or you end up breaking up because timing isnt in your favor and the friendship severs.
 

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what she's trying to say is...

It'll RARELY work, and by rarely, it's like winning the full lottery.

Why do I say that, because I'm a fool for falling for my close friends...
 
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