"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so a while back i posted a thread about going for this girl, but i've decided not to because i know how she is now.

some background: we're like really good friends, we've been friends since 8th grade(we're in 10th now) and we talk often.

has anyone else had this problem? having feelings for like their best friend? what did you guys do to like get rid of the feeling?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you get out there and you meet some one else and you go out with them and have a blast and those feelings for your best friend will subside.
once you mix those kind of feelings with your best friend, things are never the same.
you either stay together forever and call yourselves true loves and soul mates and go to reunions together or you end up breaking up because timing isnt in your favor and the friendship severs.
 
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what she's trying to say is...

It'll RARELY work, and by rarely, it's like winning the full lottery.

Why do I say that, because I'm a fool for falling for my close friends...
 
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