"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to stop shaking

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A nerd friend of mine pointed me to this site a little bit ago. I've had girl troubles all my life and thought that it was hopeless for me.

Well, all that's over. Now I'm a recovering AFC. I started reading stuff from the DJ Bible, and let me tell you, its great.

Today, I decided I'd put some of it into action. Was sitting at school, working on my laptop. A girl sat down near me, I initiated conversation, shortly after, I asked for her number. It worked, and I got it. I was almost sure I would be rejected, and when I wasn't it caught me off guard.

I started shaking pretty nervously. She noticed, asked me why I was shaking. Told her residual side effects from the coffee. It was all cool, but the whole time I'm sitting here talking to her, I'm trying not to shake. I know its just that I was freaking nervous because I expected a rejection.

So here's my question:
What can be done about shaking? Is this just something that will get better over time?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thats hilarious!

just get used to talking to people thats all really. or bring a cup of coffee everywhere you go and use that as your excuse.
 
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Shaking, and all other nervous jerks are from you being uncomfortable in your own skin, in your environment, and surroundings, and circumstances. Such as the unexpected anxiety of getting her number.


Be comfortable with yourself.


Develop confidence in yourself. That will fix it for good.


Body building. When you work out, that takes plenty of stress off. Better body gives you confidence as well.


Go for another number close with a different chick. Be compfortable while doing that. You won't shake again.
 
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MrMike said:
...So here's my question:
What can be done about shaking? Is this just something that will get better over time?
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Be prepared not to be rejected 100% of the time.
 
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Keep on talking to women. After a few months you'll be completely desensitized and you won't shake anymore. Keep progressing and take the next step. Go on dates, etc. There is medication for this but it's totally not needed. Once you get used to interacting with women you'll be fine.

Kudos,
Matt
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol thats funny . but take a pain relaxing pill lourtabs lol this way ur body will be in a differnt state of mind that way you dont give a F***K what she says u say everything will go smoothly
 
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the only shaking any guy should be doing around a girl is shaking the last drips of *** off his **** after he busts all over her azz
 
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I'll get over it. Just need to get out more and strut my stuff.

Randallpink83 said:


Scarlett: "Is that why you're shaking like that?"

Topher: "Yes. I believe it is"
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That totally made my evening. You rock.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're Viper, right?

Sounds like you're making progress, good stuff.
 
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I'm definitely not some guy named Viper. I'm just Mike.
 
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