"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to stop shaking

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A nerd friend of mine pointed me to this site a little bit ago. I've had girl troubles all my life and thought that it was hopeless for me.

Well, all that's over. Now I'm a recovering AFC. I started reading stuff from the DJ Bible, and let me tell you, its great.

Today, I decided I'd put some of it into action. Was sitting at school, working on my laptop. A girl sat down near me, I initiated conversation, shortly after, I asked for her number. It worked, and I got it. I was almost sure I would be rejected, and when I wasn't it caught me off guard.

I started shaking pretty nervously. She noticed, asked me why I was shaking. Told her residual side effects from the coffee. It was all cool, but the whole time I'm sitting here talking to her, I'm trying not to shake. I know its just that I was freaking nervous because I expected a rejection.

So here's my question:
What can be done about shaking? Is this just something that will get better over time?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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thats hilarious!

just get used to talking to people thats all really. or bring a cup of coffee everywhere you go and use that as your excuse.
 
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Shaking, and all other nervous jerks are from you being uncomfortable in your own skin, in your environment, and surroundings, and circumstances. Such as the unexpected anxiety of getting her number.


Be comfortable with yourself.


Develop confidence in yourself. That will fix it for good.


Body building. When you work out, that takes plenty of stress off. Better body gives you confidence as well.


Go for another number close with a different chick. Be compfortable while doing that. You won't shake again.
 
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MrMike said:
...So here's my question:
What can be done about shaking? Is this just something that will get better over time?
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Be prepared not to be rejected 100% of the time.
 
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Keep on talking to women. After a few months you'll be completely desensitized and you won't shake anymore. Keep progressing and take the next step. Go on dates, etc. There is medication for this but it's totally not needed. Once you get used to interacting with women you'll be fine.

Kudos,
Matt
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol thats funny . but take a pain relaxing pill lourtabs lol this way ur body will be in a differnt state of mind that way you dont give a F***K what she says u say everything will go smoothly
 
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the only shaking any guy should be doing around a girl is shaking the last drips of *** off his **** after he busts all over her azz
 
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I'll get over it. Just need to get out more and strut my stuff.

Randallpink83 said:


Scarlett: "Is that why you're shaking like that?"

Topher: "Yes. I believe it is"
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That totally made my evening. You rock.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're Viper, right?

Sounds like you're making progress, good stuff.
 
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I'm definitely not some guy named Viper. I'm just Mike.
 
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