How to Steal this Girl from her Boyfriend?

[nicksaiz65]

So long story short, I’ve had a friend who I know thinks I’m cute. She’s got a boyfriend, but she’s explicitly said I was cute. Before, I was like I’m not gonna steal girls who have boyfriends. But now, I’m like f that. So she’s been sliding in my Snap DMs, flirting with me, sending me random selfies, smiley faces, looking at me sexually, talking about how much I Party, the whole shabang. Last night at a party I was basically like “come over tomorrow at 7 and I’ll show you how good I am in bed.” Bold as hell lol. And she responded back “We shall see.” So how do I go about smashing? Should I make a move today and be like “Still coming over at 7 (winky face)?” Comment below cause I’ve never been in this situation and don’t really know how to handle it

 

[AJ84]

So long story short, I’ve had a friend who I know thinks I’m cute. She’s got a boyfriend, but she’s explicitly said I was cute. Before, I was like I’m not gonna steal girls who have boyfriends. But now, I’m like f that. So she’s been sliding in my Snap DMs, flirting with me, sending me random selfies, smiley faces, looking at me sexually, talking about how much I Party, the whole shabang. Last night at a party I was basically like “come over tomorrow at 7 and I’ll show you how good I am in bed.” Bold as hell lol. And she responded back “We shall see.” So how do I go about smashing? Should I make a move today and be like “Still coming over at 7 (winky face)?” Comment below cause I’ve never been in this situation and don’t really know how to handle it

Think about it: if you can successfully steal this girl from her boyfriend just because she thinks your cute and she likes that you party, what are the chances that she can just as easily be stolen from you by the next cute guy who likes to party? Her flirting with you while having a boyfriend is clear that she isn't the loyal type at this stage of her life, but if you're ok with that and are just looking to have some no strings fun go for it but keep your feelings out of it.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Think about it: if you can successfully steal this girl from her boyfriend just because she thinks your cute and she likes that you party, what are the chances that she can just as easily be stolen from you by the next cute guy who likes to party? Her flirting with you while having a boyfriend is clear that she isn't the loyal type at this stage of her life, but if you're ok with that and are just looking to have some no strings fun go for it but keep your feelings out of it.

Yeah I’m not really looking for anything serious at all lol

 

[Billtx49]

Yeah I’m not really looking for anything serious at all lol

Not serious, but willing to contribute to a breakup to get some sex. Not so suave there guy…

 

[nicksaiz65]

Not serious, but willing to contribute to a breakup to get some sex. Not so suave there guy…

Discretion... haha

 

[Serenity]

So bold, but now your facade is suddenly crumbling... Where did your balls go? If you're going to play that game you can't have doubts, you just take shots and see how far you get.

 

[AJ84]

Not serious, but willing to contribute to a breakup to get some sex. Not so suave there guy…

True, but it takes two to break it up. If she has no issue with sleeping with another guy then she wasn't that much of a girlfriend to begin with.

Girls who are really into their boyfriends and value him and the relationship aren't easily suduced by other men and certainly don't send flirty msgs to other guys like this girl is doing. If it's not him going for her it will probably be some other guy.

 

[highSpeed]

True, but it takes two to break it up. If she has no issue with sleeping with another guy then she wasn't that much of a girlfriend to begin with.

Girls who are really into their boyfriends and value him and the relationship aren't easily suduced by other men and certainly don't send flirty msgs to other guys like this girl is doing. If it's not him going for her it will probably be some other guy.

not true at all. their loyalties go back and forth all the time. catch her on the right day, she's available. that's the way most women are unfortunately.

 

[AJ84]

not true at all. their loyalties go back and forth all the time. catch her on the right day, she's available. that's the way most women are unfortunately.

I disagree. But in the case of this girl, she's already not loyal and the OP's flirting with her isn't changing a loyal girlfriend into a potential cheater. By her actions she's already halfway there, and her relationship with her boyfriend is already doomed.

 

[highSpeed]

I disagree. But in the case of this girl, she's already not loyal and the OP's flirting with her isn't changing a loyal girlfriend into a potential cheater. By her actions she's already halfway there, and her relationship with her boyfriend is already doomed.

probably but most women that have options are available to some degree, this chick is no different. options galore with the right size *ss and t*ts.

 

[Billtx49]

and the OP's flirting with her isn't changing a loyal girlfriend into a potential cheater. By her actions she's already halfway there.

He isn’t flirting, he came out and said to her he wants to bang her. On the other hand, her flirting with him may only be for needed attention or an orbiter attempt, but you’re right she is Halfway there.

 

[AJ84]

He isn’t flirting, he came out and said to her he wants to bang her. On the other hand, her flirting with him may only be for needed attention or an orbiter attempt, but you’re right she is Halfway there.

Ok well he propositioned her which is several levels up from flirting, but yeah, you are right she could just be attention seeking and wasting his time.

 

[AJ84]

probably but most women that have options are available to some degree, this chick is no different. options galore with the right size *ss and t*ts.

a lot of women do have options and I'm not going to pretend that some won't dump a guy for something they think is better, but some women are quite loyal despite options, just like some guys are.
I would say this girl is also young and there is a chance that she, like many young girls and young guys, don't really take relationships that seriously. Some do of course,but the selfie party lover snap chat types, probably not as much.

 

[wifehunter]

Evaluate which kind of boyfriend it is.

Is it a husband type 'be with you forever' boyfriend, or an 'Anita Mann syndrome' 'placeholder orbiter' boyfriend?

Either way, she's garbage.

If you're going to steal something, don't steal trash. Who, the fukk, steals trash?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I disagree. But in the case of this girl, she's already not loyal and the OP's flirting with her isn't changing a loyal girlfriend into a potential cheater. By her actions she's already halfway there, and her relationship with her boyfriend is already doomed.

It's doomed and she'll be a terrible girlfriend. I knew a female that ran the same "format" she'd have a boyfriend who loved her, there for security, while she occasionally partied and banged guys on the side. It didn't matter if the boyfriend was a male model, he'd get cheated on. She loved that format.

So don't think this is girlfriend material, and maybe look at it as doing the guy a favor getting his slimey "girlfriend" off of him.

 

[marmel75]

Think about it: if you can successfully steal this girl from her boyfriend just because she thinks your cute and she likes that you party, what are the chances that she can just as easily be stolen from you by the next cute guy who likes to party? Her flirting with you while having a boyfriend is clear that she isn't the loyal type at this stage of her life, but if you're ok with that and are just looking to have some no strings fun go for it but keep your feelings out of it.

Why are you assuming he wants to be her boyfriend? That's only a concern if he cares about that. If he just wants to bang that is irrelevant.

 

[ohrein]

Just because she doesn't have it, doesn't mean you shouldn't strive for it. You reap what you sow.

integrity
ɪnˈtɛɡrɪti/
noun

1. the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.
   
   synonyms: honesty, uprightness, probity, rectitude, honor, honorableness, upstandingness, good character, principle(s), ethics, morals, righteousness, morality, nobility, high-mindedness, right-mindedness, noble-mindedness, virtue, decency, fairness, scrupulousness, sincerity, truthfulness, trustworthiness
   
   
   

 

[wifehunter]

Just because she doesn't have it, doesn't mean you shouldn't strive for it. You reap what you sow.

integrity
ɪnˈtɛɡrɪti/
noun

1. the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.
   
   synonyms: honesty, uprightness, probity, rectitude, honor, honorableness, upstandingness, good character, principle(s), ethics, morals, righteousness, morality, nobility, high-mindedness, right-mindedness, noble-mindedness, virtue, decency, fairness, scrupulousness, sincerity, truthfulness, trustworthiness
   

Lolz!!!

You had to quote the dictionary, because people have no clue!

 

[ohrein]

Lolz!!!

You had to quote the dictionary, because people have no clue!

A lot of people don't. I don't blame them. Philosophy isn't taught in schools and parents sure as hell don't teach it. I think most people don't even know if or why it's a worthwhile goal. Sad times.

 

[AJ84]

Why are you assuming he wants to be her boyfriend? That's only a concern if he cares about that. If he just wants to bang that is irrelevant.

Hence the last sentence of my post that you quoted.