"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how to steal a girl from her deuchbag boyfriend

Wal Doe

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nevermind, you can't ask a forum dedicated to narcissism for advice on how to cure a narcissist.:wave:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mantis Toboggan

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You're 33 years old? Come on, man. You're too old to believe in fairy tales.

Reality of the situation - She's banging the roided up, possessive, rich, spoiled brat boyfriend.

And the good-listener, nice guy, asexual male friend (that's you) is sitting at home dreaming about her.

She can complain about him all she wants. She's banging him. Not you. So HE is what turns her on. And YOU are her nice guy little brother.
 

Mike32ct

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She can complain about this guy all she wants. It means nothing. If I had a nickel for ever girl that swore she was sick of her douche bf and was going to break up with him, BUT she still stayed with him or at least kept having sex with him, I'd be pretty wealthy.

Actually I'd be at the TOP of the "What's your income" poll in Anything Else lol.

Let it go.
 

EastWind

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  1. Learn proper spelling/capitalization.
  2. Apply same dedication and level of perfection to remaining areas of life.
  3. Rest should follow.

Wal Doe said:
maybe i'm still an afc at heart...
Read your post as though it was written by someone else on this forum... how does it sound? Your princess is in another castle, I'm afraid.
 

bigneil

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Who cares if she has a boyfriend? Only care if she is f*cking you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eternal_water

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If she is fvcking him and staying with him thats all you need to know about how "unhappy" she really is.
 

omega05

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Eternal_water said:
If she is fvcking him and staying with him thats all you need to know about how "unhappy" she really is.
exactly. I tell you about these white knights, captain save-a-heaux
 

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omega05 said:
exactly. I tell you about these white knights, captain save-a-heaux
In the Legend of Zelda games, Link always saves the princess and THEY NEVER EVEN KISS! Even in the cartoon series, a kiss never happened.

In Super Mario games, how the hell does Princess Toadstool get kidnapped by the SAME PERSON MULTIPLE TIMES? She's not just banging Mario, she's banging Luigi, Bowser, The Koopa Kids, and The Toads from Worlds 1-7!

Anytime a woman is complaining to you about another guy, she's banging him. He's seeing her naked. You never will.

Muscular Millionaires see a lot of naked women.

There's no such thing as monogamy in a woman's eyes.

Case closed.
 
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Being a captain-save-a-hoe will see you get hurt, it's just not worth it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory

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bigneil said:
Who cares if she has a boyfriend? Only care if she is f*cking you.
Yup. And if she wants you to be her boyfriend you just walk away because you know what's going to happen behind your back.
 
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