"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to start a conversation/get a phone number?

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I've been with girls,but my problem really is that I'm kinda shy and I usually don't go and hit on girls unless they come first and intiate the conversation,after that it's quite easy,we talk ,dance,etc.
So my question is how do you guys usually go and pick up girls? For example yesterday I've went to a rock concert :rockon: and there was a really hot girl besides me,she kept looking at me but I had absolutley no ideea what to say to her,my mind was blank :confused: ....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can't really talk, but in that situation I would do:
- Force yourself to look straight at her
- She will instinctively glance back at you
- DONT look away, instead force yourself to smile
- Smiling is hard, so instead form a wide "Hey" with your lips, and boom you're smiling.

She'll hopefully smile back. You're not going to be able to talk, but you made the first contact, and she'll likely stay around till the song stops. Then you'll get a couple of words in like "awesome band blabla", and she says "yeah i'm so excited blabla" and the next song starts.

You've made first contact and you've already experienced a cool concert together, and it only cost you a smile and 5 words.

Finally when the band is done, you go to the bar together to grab a drink and your game runs from there.
 
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