How to start a conversation/get a phone number?

[WeaponOfWar]

I've been with girls,but my problem really is that I'm kinda shy and I usually don't go and hit on girls unless they come first and intiate the conversation,after that it's quite easy,we talk ,dance,etc.
So my question is how do you guys usually go and pick up girls? For example yesterday I've went to a rock concert :rockon: and there was a really hot girl besides me,she kept looking at me but I had absolutley no ideea what to say to her,my mind was blank ....

 

[Huffman]

You can't really talk, but in that situation I would do:
- Force yourself to look straight at her
- She will instinctively glance back at you
- DONT look away, instead force yourself to smile
- Smiling is hard, so instead form a wide "Hey" with your lips, and boom you're smiling.

She'll hopefully smile back. You're not going to be able to talk, but you made the first contact, and she'll likely stay around till the song stops. Then you'll get a couple of words in like "awesome band blabla", and she says "yeah i'm so excited blabla" and the next song starts.

You've made first contact and you've already experienced a cool concert together, and it only cost you a smile and 5 words.

Finally when the band is done, you go to the bar together to grab a drink and your game runs from there.

 

[WeaponOfWar]

Thanks for the useful advice