“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WeaponOfWar

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I've been with girls,but my problem really is that I'm kinda shy and I usually don't go and hit on girls unless they come first and intiate the conversation,after that it's quite easy,we talk ,dance,etc.
So my question is how do you guys usually go and pick up girls? For example yesterday I've went to a rock concert :rockon: and there was a really hot girl besides me,she kept looking at me but I had absolutley no ideea what to say to her,my mind was blank :confused: ....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Huffman

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You can't really talk, but in that situation I would do:
- Force yourself to look straight at her
- She will instinctively glance back at you
- DONT look away, instead force yourself to smile
- Smiling is hard, so instead form a wide "Hey" with your lips, and boom you're smiling.

She'll hopefully smile back. You're not going to be able to talk, but you made the first contact, and she'll likely stay around till the song stops. Then you'll get a couple of words in like "awesome band blabla", and she says "yeah i'm so excited blabla" and the next song starts.

You've made first contact and you've already experienced a cool concert together, and it only cost you a smile and 5 words.

Finally when the band is done, you go to the bar together to grab a drink and your game runs from there.
 
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