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How to smile less in everyday life?

DJDeMarco

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I smile a lot when talking with people and I like to laugh a lot and end up saying witty creative things generally in conversation with people. I don't do this to "people please", I just like to have my fun this way. I can do decent with my social circle game just being myself at the moment, but I could be more masculine and start getting with hotter and more exotic women, especially in cold approach. I've always struggled with being the most masculine guy.
So, how would I start smiling less in order to put that into my system without overthinking and being self conscious?
 

foreverAFC

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just be yourself and be comfortable, if you want to be more masculine hit the gym and buy yourself a nice flannel jacket
 

Kailex

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Why in the BLUE HELL would you want to smile less?
 

Gunner26

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I wouldn't say that smiling less means you are more masculine. It may make you seem more serious which can indirectly make you seem more masculine, but surely that serious image would contradict your fun social persona, which you have been using and tailoring for years o make yourself unique.

Plus smiling is seen as an attractive trait. Girls like guys who smile, guys like girls who smile. It's the most universally recognised body sign for a reason, it means the same thing to everyone.

Being fun and smiling all the time doesn't mean you aren't masculine. It may make you seem less serious, but is that really a bad thing?

Gunner
 

JohnChops

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Kailex said:
Why in the BLUE HELL would you want to smile less?
Seriously, everyone loves a warm inviting smile. Smiling releases endorphins to make you and the people around the happy. Why the hell would you not want that?
 

Kbomb

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I have this same problem. Girls don't respond that well to a guy who smiles too often. Flashing a smile here and there is great, when you can't stop, not so much.

It just takes practice and effort. You have to remind yourself to not smile.
 

Mike32ct

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Smiling is fine if that's the way a guy naturally is. I know a smiley guy who always has like a HB7.5 gf.

The ONLY time you might possibly tone down the smiling is for a ONS. IME most ONS' are not between the super smiley funny guy and friendly giggly girl. It is usually a serious or neutral (like Stagger Lee says) acting guy AND a cold, business-like almost pissed off appearing female*.

*This is not to be confused with a b@tch shield. B@tch shield => little or no interest. Cold/businesslike DTF => high interest.
 

Kailex

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Oh holy crap... seriously?

If you have to constantly remind yourself to be "serious" and not smile... you guys are analyzing all of this way too much.

If you think women don't respond to men who smile "too much"... trust me, it's not the over-bearing smile that might be problem.
 
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