Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to seduce a woman

Meisterman

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I've seen many tips on here on how to seduce women, some good while others not. I will let you in on a little secret I've learned that has worked time and time again for me.

I call it the 'ole "hit and run" technique. Hit on a girl and then stop talking to her. Repeat process indefinitely.

For example, the other day I went into a Health Food Store and one of the cashiers (HB9) was giving me looks that indicated to me she was interested.

I've been working out lately and just got a new job and am keeping myself busy, got a new haircut, spending a lot of time in the sunshine, etc. Bottom line is my confidence is through the roof right now, even much higher than in my previous posts/contributions to this site.

My old self either wouldn't have been able to pick up on subtle cues from this girl that she liked me (like giving me free store coupons even though I didn't have them with me) or I wouldn't have kept up with my appearance or radiate enough personality to even attract such a woman.

Anyways, the following day I had a hunch this chick was into me, literally only 1 day after I even acknowledged her as such and still didn't know her name, I made a ballsy move. I walked into the Health Food Store and asked for her number right there while she was working and had customers. It worked flawlessly.

I then got right to the point. Asked her for a time to see her, she gave me the nod (tomorrow). Then once I arranged it, I stopped messaging her.

Bottom line is too many guys on here say "Act like you don't care" or "Don't chase her." BULL**** BULL**** BULL****!

You're SUPPOSED to CHASE her! That's the point!!! But only initially. You radiate confidence and security by asking for a girl's number you hardly know, and arranging a date. Then you show detachment and you show you don't need her in your life by going on doing what you'd always do.

Women supplement your life, they are not meant to be the center.

Bottom line. Do you. Eat healthy. Take care of yourself and RESPECT yourself. Grow some balls and take a leap of faith like I did and ask that SUPER hot chick out or for her number. If you are truly confident with yourself you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

Now if you excuse me gentlemen, I have a lay to prepare for
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Duke

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lol, experience has told me don't count your chickens before they hatch. You want to put money up that I couldn't go in behind you an hour later and accomplish the exact same thing?
 

marmel75

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Lol, chasing has nothing to do with asking a woman out initially.

Once again a person who doesn't understand context of what is being said.

Good job on getting the number but you got a 50/50 chance of a flake.
 

thatfeel

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I don't know how many times it's been said on this forum but getting the number means nothing. In this day and age girls will give out numbers to practically anyone.
 

Alvafe

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I've seen many tips on here on how to seduce women, some good while others not. I will let you in on a little secret I've learned that has worked time and time again for me.

I call it the 'ole "hit and run" technique. Hit on a girl and then stop talking to her. Repeat process indefinitely.

For example, the other day I went into a Health Food Store and one of the cashiers (HB9) was giving me looks that indicated to me she was interested.

I've been working out lately and just got a new job and am keeping myself busy, got a new haircut, spending a lot of time in the sunshine, etc. Bottom line is my confidence is through the roof right now, even much higher than in my previous posts/contributions to this site.

My old self either wouldn't have been able to pick up on subtle cues from this girl that she liked me (like giving me free store coupons even though I didn't have them with me) or I wouldn't have kept up with my appearance or radiate enough personality to even attract such a woman.

Anyways, the following day I had a hunch this chick was into me, literally only 1 day after I even acknowledged her as such and still didn't know her name, I made a ballsy move. I walked into the Health Food Store and asked for her number right there while she was working and had customers. It worked flawlessly.

I then got right to the point. Asked her for a time to see her, she gave me the nod (tomorrow). Then once I arranged it, I stopped messaging her.

Bottom line is too many guys on here say "Act like you don't care" or "Don't chase her." BULL**** BULL**** BULL****!

You're SUPPOSED to CHASE her! That's the point!!! But only initially. You radiate confidence and security by asking for a girl's number you hardly know, and arranging a date. Then you show detachment and you show you don't need her in your life by going on doing what you'd always do.

Women supplement your life, they are not meant to be the center.

Bottom line. Do you. Eat healthy. Take care of yourself and RESPECT yourself. Grow some balls and take a leap of faith like I did and ask that SUPER hot chick out or for her number. If you are truly confident with yourself you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

Now if you excuse me gentlemen, I have a lay to prepare for

you better come back and tell us the truth about this later

btw, that is not chase her
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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