"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to seduce a woman

Meisterman

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I've seen many tips on here on how to seduce women, some good while others not. I will let you in on a little secret I've learned that has worked time and time again for me.

I call it the 'ole "hit and run" technique. Hit on a girl and then stop talking to her. Repeat process indefinitely.

For example, the other day I went into a Health Food Store and one of the cashiers (HB9) was giving me looks that indicated to me she was interested.

I've been working out lately and just got a new job and am keeping myself busy, got a new haircut, spending a lot of time in the sunshine, etc. Bottom line is my confidence is through the roof right now, even much higher than in my previous posts/contributions to this site.

My old self either wouldn't have been able to pick up on subtle cues from this girl that she liked me (like giving me free store coupons even though I didn't have them with me) or I wouldn't have kept up with my appearance or radiate enough personality to even attract such a woman.

Anyways, the following day I had a hunch this chick was into me, literally only 1 day after I even acknowledged her as such and still didn't know her name, I made a ballsy move. I walked into the Health Food Store and asked for her number right there while she was working and had customers. It worked flawlessly.

I then got right to the point. Asked her for a time to see her, she gave me the nod (tomorrow). Then once I arranged it, I stopped messaging her.

Bottom line is too many guys on here say "Act like you don't care" or "Don't chase her." BULL**** BULL**** BULL****!

You're SUPPOSED to CHASE her! That's the point!!! But only initially. You radiate confidence and security by asking for a girl's number you hardly know, and arranging a date. Then you show detachment and you show you don't need her in your life by going on doing what you'd always do.

Women supplement your life, they are not meant to be the center.

Bottom line. Do you. Eat healthy. Take care of yourself and RESPECT yourself. Grow some balls and take a leap of faith like I did and ask that SUPER hot chick out or for her number. If you are truly confident with yourself you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

Now if you excuse me gentlemen, I have a lay to prepare for
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Duke

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lol, experience has told me don't count your chickens before they hatch. You want to put money up that I couldn't go in behind you an hour later and accomplish the exact same thing?
 

marmel75

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Lol, chasing has nothing to do with asking a woman out initially.

Once again a person who doesn't understand context of what is being said.

Good job on getting the number but you got a 50/50 chance of a flake.
 

thatfeel

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I don't know how many times it's been said on this forum but getting the number means nothing. In this day and age girls will give out numbers to practically anyone.
 

Alvafe

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I've seen many tips on here on how to seduce women, some good while others not. I will let you in on a little secret I've learned that has worked time and time again for me.

I call it the 'ole "hit and run" technique. Hit on a girl and then stop talking to her. Repeat process indefinitely.

For example, the other day I went into a Health Food Store and one of the cashiers (HB9) was giving me looks that indicated to me she was interested.

I've been working out lately and just got a new job and am keeping myself busy, got a new haircut, spending a lot of time in the sunshine, etc. Bottom line is my confidence is through the roof right now, even much higher than in my previous posts/contributions to this site.

My old self either wouldn't have been able to pick up on subtle cues from this girl that she liked me (like giving me free store coupons even though I didn't have them with me) or I wouldn't have kept up with my appearance or radiate enough personality to even attract such a woman.

Anyways, the following day I had a hunch this chick was into me, literally only 1 day after I even acknowledged her as such and still didn't know her name, I made a ballsy move. I walked into the Health Food Store and asked for her number right there while she was working and had customers. It worked flawlessly.

I then got right to the point. Asked her for a time to see her, she gave me the nod (tomorrow). Then once I arranged it, I stopped messaging her.

Bottom line is too many guys on here say "Act like you don't care" or "Don't chase her." BULL**** BULL**** BULL****!

You're SUPPOSED to CHASE her! That's the point!!! But only initially. You radiate confidence and security by asking for a girl's number you hardly know, and arranging a date. Then you show detachment and you show you don't need her in your life by going on doing what you'd always do.

Women supplement your life, they are not meant to be the center.

Bottom line. Do you. Eat healthy. Take care of yourself and RESPECT yourself. Grow some balls and take a leap of faith like I did and ask that SUPER hot chick out or for her number. If you are truly confident with yourself you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

Now if you excuse me gentlemen, I have a lay to prepare for

you better come back and tell us the truth about this later

btw, that is not chase her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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