mustfirstregister
Master Don Juan
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She says she feels comfortable but weird.
How do you respond to that?
How do you respond to that?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Since your profile shows you as 80 years old, I suspect she thinks of you as her grandpa. She would feel comfortable taking you out to friendlies for some fried clams but anything else is off the table.
mustfirstregister
Master Don Juan
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Do you guys really think I'm 80? what is wrong in this forum?
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
No, mustfirstregister. We are well aware that you might be below the age of 80.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
really dude???mustfirstregister said:
how do you expect us to give an insight with no explanation of the context and events prior to this or the situation with her??
mustfirstregister said:
the day that I stopped taking girls and their little tests seriously:
the sun broke through the clouds, birds flew down and chirped in harmony, music sounded better, my stress levels decreased, and I hooked up more
Try it!
HER: "I feel comfortable but weird"
ME: "Well......I don't know about the comfortable part
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