"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to respond to this

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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boomerick

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GOOD!

Now go make me a sandwich!

Over and Out.
 

Atom Smasher

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Since your profile shows you as 80 years old, I suspect she thinks of you as her grandpa. She would feel comfortable taking you out to friendlies for some fried clams but anything else is off the table.
 

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No, mustfirstregister. We are well aware that you might be below the age of 80.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mustfirstregister said:
She says she feels comfortable but weird.
How do you respond to that?
really dude???
how do you expect us to give an insight with no explanation of the context and events prior to this or the situation with her??
 

HolyG

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mustfirstregister said:
She says she feels comfortable but weird.

the day that I stopped taking girls and their little tests seriously:

the sun broke through the clouds, birds flew down and chirped in harmony, music sounded better, my stress levels decreased, and I hooked up more

Try it!

HER: "I feel comfortable but weird"

ME: "Well......I don't know about the comfortable part :p"
 
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