"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to respond to this

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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boomerick

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GOOD!

Now go make me a sandwich!

Over and Out.
 

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Since your profile shows you as 80 years old, I suspect she thinks of you as her grandpa. She would feel comfortable taking you out to friendlies for some fried clams but anything else is off the table.
 

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No, mustfirstregister. We are well aware that you might be below the age of 80.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mustfirstregister said:
She says she feels comfortable but weird.
How do you respond to that?
really dude???
how do you expect us to give an insight with no explanation of the context and events prior to this or the situation with her??
 

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mustfirstregister said:
She says she feels comfortable but weird.

the day that I stopped taking girls and their little tests seriously:

the sun broke through the clouds, birds flew down and chirped in harmony, music sounded better, my stress levels decreased, and I hooked up more

Try it!

HER: "I feel comfortable but weird"

ME: "Well......I don't know about the comfortable part :p"
 
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