mustfirstregister
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She says she feels comfortable but weird.
How do you respond to that?
How do you respond to that?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Since your profile shows you as 80 years old, I suspect she thinks of you as her grandpa. She would feel comfortable taking you out to friendlies for some fried clams but anything else is off the table.
mustfirstregister
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Do you guys really think I'm 80? what is wrong in this forum?
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
No, mustfirstregister. We are well aware that you might be below the age of 80.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
really dude???mustfirstregister said:
how do you expect us to give an insight with no explanation of the context and events prior to this or the situation with her??
mustfirstregister said:
the day that I stopped taking girls and their little tests seriously:
the sun broke through the clouds, birds flew down and chirped in harmony, music sounded better, my stress levels decreased, and I hooked up more
Try it!
HER: "I feel comfortable but weird"
ME: "Well......I don't know about the comfortable part
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