"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheCWord

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Only now really forcing myself to get back on the horse after a severe case of oneitis. So I decided to text this girl who is a lot of fun to banter with - the way she matches wits with me is a major part of the attraction - and told her to meet me for a drink at this bar tonight. I'm going to the bar regardless, I like to pop in for a scotch when I can, but I'd like the company.

(Edited out her reply to avoid Google arching it... basically she said she may just pop by and will get back to me once she knows)

How would you reply?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheCWord said:
Only now really forcing myself to get back on the horse after a severe case of oneitis. So I decided to text this girl who is a lot of fun to banter with - the way she matches wits with me is a major part of the attraction - and told her to meet me for a drink at this bar tonight. I'm going to the bar regardless, I like to pop in for a scotch when I can, but I'd like the company.

Her reply:

"If I get off early I may!! With my friend from work and she lives a road over so always have to bring her home! But might stop by for one! Ill let u know if I can get out before 8:30"

How would you reply?
The over emphasis in her reply with the exclamation points (if she actually used them) would to me come across as a chick who is just fluff talking. (Not in a bad way) so no need to think to deep into it.

I'd reply back mirroring her use of exclamation points and use of "may" in a reply:

Cool! I may or may not be there when you arrive or I may even be unconcious on the floor so make sure you look down! If so, please call the paramedics! Hahaha. Talk to you soon! ;)

Edit: The reply I made "assumes" that she IS going to show. I put a little positive, humorous friendly reinforcement in it.


And leave it at that. If she shows. She shows. If not, nothing to worry about. Maybe next time.
 

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Thanks guys. Both good responses. In the end the winner was....

BrownBear!

I didn't reply and sure enough got a text while I was getting ready to go out to the bar anyway. It was a good time with the exciting back and forth banter we've come to enjoy from each other. To be continued, perhaps next time on a proper date.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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