“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheCWord

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Only now really forcing myself to get back on the horse after a severe case of oneitis. So I decided to text this girl who is a lot of fun to banter with - the way she matches wits with me is a major part of the attraction - and told her to meet me for a drink at this bar tonight. I'm going to the bar regardless, I like to pop in for a scotch when I can, but I'd like the company.

(Edited out her reply to avoid Google arching it... basically she said she may just pop by and will get back to me once she knows)

How would you reply?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheCWord said:
Only now really forcing myself to get back on the horse after a severe case of oneitis. So I decided to text this girl who is a lot of fun to banter with - the way she matches wits with me is a major part of the attraction - and told her to meet me for a drink at this bar tonight. I'm going to the bar regardless, I like to pop in for a scotch when I can, but I'd like the company.

Her reply:

"If I get off early I may!! With my friend from work and she lives a road over so always have to bring her home! But might stop by for one! Ill let u know if I can get out before 8:30"

How would you reply?
The over emphasis in her reply with the exclamation points (if she actually used them) would to me come across as a chick who is just fluff talking. (Not in a bad way) so no need to think to deep into it.

I'd reply back mirroring her use of exclamation points and use of "may" in a reply:

Cool! I may or may not be there when you arrive or I may even be unconcious on the floor so make sure you look down! If so, please call the paramedics! Hahaha. Talk to you soon! ;)

Edit: The reply I made "assumes" that she IS going to show. I put a little positive, humorous friendly reinforcement in it.


And leave it at that. If she shows. She shows. If not, nothing to worry about. Maybe next time.
 

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Thanks guys. Both good responses. In the end the winner was....

BrownBear!

I didn't reply and sure enough got a text while I was getting ready to go out to the bar anyway. It was a good time with the exciting back and forth banter we've come to enjoy from each other. To be continued, perhaps next time on a proper date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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