"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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I would think next. Here's why: if you didn't notice in your first thread, you said that after you told her how you felt, everything stopped. Granted that was a mistake in the first place, if she felt the same way I'm sure she would have told you right then and there. You see how your conversations are going? You can tell if she's interested by what you talk about - make it sexual and if she diverts it, well, obvious is only so obvious.

EDIT:// IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN
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If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."

Did you ever (and I'm sure you have) hear the phrase: "Actions speak louder than words." ? Well this is THE prime example where that holds true. Be your best, most confident person you can be. Don't settle for less.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
dont respond
 

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faiNt` said:
IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN


If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."
What if she does say she is busy, or what if she flat out says no? lol. What would a good response be at that point?

I have made a move..lots of heavy making out among other things, but we did not go all the way.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
Ignore her until she starts getting restless and runs after you... asking stuff like "why aren't you responding to my texts??"... that will be a good position to be in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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