"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to respond to her text?

seabumma

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A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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faiNt`

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I would think next. Here's why: if you didn't notice in your first thread, you said that after you told her how you felt, everything stopped. Granted that was a mistake in the first place, if she felt the same way I'm sure she would have told you right then and there. You see how your conversations are going? You can tell if she's interested by what you talk about - make it sexual and if she diverts it, well, obvious is only so obvious.

EDIT:// IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN
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If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."

Did you ever (and I'm sure you have) hear the phrase: "Actions speak louder than words." ? Well this is THE prime example where that holds true. Be your best, most confident person you can be. Don't settle for less.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
dont respond
 

seabumma

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faiNt` said:
IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN


If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."
What if she does say she is busy, or what if she flat out says no? lol. What would a good response be at that point?

I have made a move..lots of heavy making out among other things, but we did not go all the way.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
Ignore her until she starts getting restless and runs after you... asking stuff like "why aren't you responding to my texts??"... that will be a good position to be in.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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