"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to respond to her text?

seabumma

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A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would think next. Here's why: if you didn't notice in your first thread, you said that after you told her how you felt, everything stopped. Granted that was a mistake in the first place, if she felt the same way I'm sure she would have told you right then and there. You see how your conversations are going? You can tell if she's interested by what you talk about - make it sexual and if she diverts it, well, obvious is only so obvious.

EDIT:// IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN
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If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."

Did you ever (and I'm sure you have) hear the phrase: "Actions speak louder than words." ? Well this is THE prime example where that holds true. Be your best, most confident person you can be. Don't settle for less.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
dont respond
 

seabumma

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faiNt` said:
IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN


If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."
What if she does say she is busy, or what if she flat out says no? lol. What would a good response be at that point?

I have made a move..lots of heavy making out among other things, but we did not go all the way.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
Ignore her until she starts getting restless and runs after you... asking stuff like "why aren't you responding to my texts??"... that will be a good position to be in.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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