"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to respond to her text?

seabumma

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A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would think next. Here's why: if you didn't notice in your first thread, you said that after you told her how you felt, everything stopped. Granted that was a mistake in the first place, if she felt the same way I'm sure she would have told you right then and there. You see how your conversations are going? You can tell if she's interested by what you talk about - make it sexual and if she diverts it, well, obvious is only so obvious.

EDIT:// IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN
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If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."

Did you ever (and I'm sure you have) hear the phrase: "Actions speak louder than words." ? Well this is THE prime example where that holds true. Be your best, most confident person you can be. Don't settle for less.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
dont respond
 

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faiNt` said:
IF YOU INSIST ON TRYING AGAIN


If i was you, I would, first, completely stop texting her. You have a life, right? So go out and enjoy it; stop worrying about one single girl. You might think she's "perfect" but I have to disagree here and say there is no such thing as a "perfect" woman. Wait however long you want to wait, then PHONE HER and ask her if she is busy X. TELL HER "I'm going to come down" when she says "no." Finally, the most important part: "MAKE A F*CKING MOVE."
What if she does say she is busy, or what if she flat out says no? lol. What would a good response be at that point?

I have made a move..lots of heavy making out among other things, but we did not go all the way.
 

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seabumma said:
A little follow up to my previous thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153466

Well, I did not bothering contacting this girl yesterday. As of this past week we have had 2 days of no communication for the first time in 3 months. The flirting has stopped on her end, whenever I flirt she just responds with bland responses or one word answers (hehe, haha, mhmm). Well, she came online last night, possibly waiting for me to come on to chat, but I did not bother. So today she sends me this text:

"I figured it out. I'm going to be a science major with a biology emphasis. It will work out well with the classes i've taken. Yay for my revelation haha"

How should I answer her text? Should I just ignore her? I want her to re-gain interest in me and get her to start flirting again.
Ignore her until she starts getting restless and runs after you... asking stuff like "why aren't you responding to my texts??"... that will be a good position to be in.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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