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How to respond to girl in situations where she 'qualifies' herself to you

icantgetlaid

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e.g. when you are negging her "your ass is small" and she responds with "i'll work on that in the gym"

what is the dj response in this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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e.g. when you are negging her "your ass is small" and she responds with "i'll work on that in the gym"

what is the dj response in this situation?
Nothing. Just move on with the convo. I don't even pull that negging **** unless the girl is feisty enough.. You do that enoguh to a sweet girl she'll think you're an *******

That's the problem with certain so called pick up artists/don juan.. They think every girl is the same. It's the fckin complete opposite. As far as body language and cues, most attractive womena re the same, yes.. But personality wise, no.
 

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If the girl is qualifying herself - just let her. No need to OD on the C&F
This. Good advice. When a woman is bragging about herself to you it's a good sign and you should take this as "game on'. Ask her out on the spot, her interest level is good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this is a plate im already spinning .. so its past figuring out whether she likes me or not .. or whether she'll go on a date or not ..

basically im trying to figure out a cool/smooth response when a girl takes a criticism seriously and says something like "i'll fix it .." "i'll learn how to cook" ... "I'll dress better" etc.

my instinct is to tell her "im just playing" ... but i know that isn't a smooth response.

om1xr response was kind of what i was looking for ... how do i play it cool after she promises to change something about herself for my approval.
 
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this is a plate im already spinning .. so its past figuring out whether she likes me or not .. or whether she'll go on a date or not ..

basically im trying to figure out a cool/smooth response when a girl takes a criticism seriously and says something like "i'll fix it .." "i'll learn how to cook" ... "I'll dress better" etc.

my instinct is to tell her "im just playing" ... but i know that isn't a smooth response.

om1xr response was kind of what i was looking for ... how do i play it cool after she promises to change something about herself for my approval.
you: "your ass is small" (though ireally hope you dont say it that direct and emotionless)
her: "ill work on that in the gym"
you: "or you can keep the miley cyrus.. some guys are into that "
 

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Girl: *insert qualifying statement*
Old_skoolr: That's nice.
 
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