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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

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How to respond to girl in situations where she 'qualifies' herself to you

icantgetlaid

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e.g. when you are negging her "your ass is small" and she responds with "i'll work on that in the gym"

what is the dj response in this situation?
 

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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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e.g. when you are negging her "your ass is small" and she responds with "i'll work on that in the gym"

what is the dj response in this situation?
Nothing. Just move on with the convo. I don't even pull that negging **** unless the girl is feisty enough.. You do that enoguh to a sweet girl she'll think you're an *******

That's the problem with certain so called pick up artists/don juan.. They think every girl is the same. It's the fckin complete opposite. As far as body language and cues, most attractive womena re the same, yes.. But personality wise, no.
 

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If the girl is qualifying herself - just let her. No need to OD on the C&F
This. Good advice. When a woman is bragging about herself to you it's a good sign and you should take this as "game on'. Ask her out on the spot, her interest level is good.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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this is a plate im already spinning .. so its past figuring out whether she likes me or not .. or whether she'll go on a date or not ..

basically im trying to figure out a cool/smooth response when a girl takes a criticism seriously and says something like "i'll fix it .." "i'll learn how to cook" ... "I'll dress better" etc.

my instinct is to tell her "im just playing" ... but i know that isn't a smooth response.

om1xr response was kind of what i was looking for ... how do i play it cool after she promises to change something about herself for my approval.
 
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this is a plate im already spinning .. so its past figuring out whether she likes me or not .. or whether she'll go on a date or not ..

basically im trying to figure out a cool/smooth response when a girl takes a criticism seriously and says something like "i'll fix it .." "i'll learn how to cook" ... "I'll dress better" etc.

my instinct is to tell her "im just playing" ... but i know that isn't a smooth response.

om1xr response was kind of what i was looking for ... how do i play it cool after she promises to change something about herself for my approval.
you: "your ass is small" (though ireally hope you dont say it that direct and emotionless)
her: "ill work on that in the gym"
you: "or you can keep the miley cyrus.. some guys are into that "
 

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Girl: *insert qualifying statement*
Old_skoolr: That's nice.
 
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