How To Respond To A Chicks Affections?

[soulforge]

I have always struggled with opening up and showing or giving chicks affection.

How would you guys respond back in these type of situations, when she messages you shyte like this

01.Goodnight baby xx
02.I miss having you next to me xx

You get the idea guys... Do you guys always respond back with affection or just ignore her and change the subject.

How often should a dude show affection?

If she reaches out and is acting all lovey, should you show her some love back?

 

[corrector]

It depends on the weather outside. If it's sunny outside, then you should show affection once in the day. If it's cloudy, then you should show affection once in a day. If there is a tornado or hurricane warning, then try about three times that day, assuming you both survive.

 

[Robert28]

I usually just do the mirror technique. When they say “goodnight baby!” I’ll say “night babe” or some variation of that. If she just says “night” I’ll say the same back to her.

 

[lamath]

Got to say im the same.

I think Robert28 mirror is probably good but i would not do it all the time.

The power of the random reward.

 

[backseatjuan]

Well number 2 is classic, 'I miss me too'

 

[cola]

I deflect their affection..

Her: I miss you
You: Prove it

Her: Goodnight babe
You: Gn

Her: I love you.
You: Show me how much next time you see me.

I don’t show verbal affection. I show physical affection when they are with me, but not verbal. I don’t know, being all mushy with words always seemed like a feminine trait to me. I don’t call them any pet names or stuff like that, I won’t say I miss them ever..
Works for me, it almost makes me a challenge in their eyes.

 

[soulforge]

I deflect their affection..

Her: I miss you
You: Prove it

Her: Goodnight babe
You: Gn

Her: I love you.
You: Show me how much next time you see me.

I don’t show verbal affection. I show physical affection when they are with me, but not verbal. I don’t know, being all mushy with words always seemed like a feminine trait to me. I don’t call them any pet names or stuff like that, I won’t say I miss them ever..
Works for me, it almost makes me a challenge in their eyes.

I feel exactly this way..

I just can't do all that emotional shyte, makes me fukin cringe.

However being completely closed off emotionally doesn't help either.. Chicks eventually get fed up of it, and move the fuk on.

I think maybe a balance needs to be struck here.

70% affection from her
30% affection from him

 

[cola]

I feel exactly this way..

I just can't do all that emotional shyte, makes me fukin cringe.

However being completely closed off emotionally doesn't help either.. Chicks eventually get fed up of it, and move the fuk on.

I think maybe a balance needs to be struck here.

70% affection from her
30% affection from him

I feel like if you show physical affection it is enough. Leading them is a form of affection, grabbing their hand when crossing a busy street is a form of affection .. when a fight breaks out in a bar, pushing them behind you to protect them is a form of affection.. that’s how men show affection.

Sending paragraph text messages declaring how much you miss them is for them to do, not us.
You feel me?

 

[soulforge]

I feel like if you show physical affection it is enough. Leading them is a form of affection, grabbing their hand when crossing a busy street is a form of affection .. when a fight brakes out in a bar, pushing them behind you to protect them is a form of affection.. that’s how men show affection.

Sending paragraph text messages declaring how much you miss them is for them to do, not us.
You feel me?

I totally feel you... I wouldn't suggest anyone declare how much they miss a chick by text.

However if a chick you are dating or in a relationship with, sends you a message.

Goodnight Babe xx

I'm sure there is nothing wrong with saying Goodnight back.. Maybe just leave the babe bit out.

There is such a thing as OVER GAMING.

The worst one is.. When they say..

I miss you x

I find it difficult to say I miss you back!!

 

[lamath]

I deflect their affection..

Her: I miss you
You: Prove it

Her: Goodnight babe
You: Gn

Her: I love you.
You: Show me how much next time you see me.

I don’t show verbal affection. I show physical affection when they are with me, but not verbal. I don’t know, being all mushy with words always seemed like a feminine trait to me. I don’t call them any pet names or stuff like that, I won’t say I miss them ever..
Works for me, it almost makes me a challenge in their eyes.

Very good stuff.

 

[cola]

I totally feel you... I wouldn't suggest anyone declare how much they miss a chick by text.

However if a chick you are dating or in a relationship with, sends you a message.

Goodnight Babe xx

I'm sure there is nothing wrong with saying Goodnight back.. Maybe just leave the babe bit out.

There is such a thing as OVER GAMING.

The worst one is.. When they say..

I miss you x

I find it difficult to say I miss you back!!

I usually say prove it..

If they say how I’ll say something sexual,
“Give me head while I drive us to dinner”.. or something silly like that.

 

[In2theGame]

The chick im dating now does this but I just naturally don't say too much or too little.

Her: I miss you
Me: I'll have my hands all over you soon enough babe
Her: Happy Emoji, Can't wait, Kissy Emoji (Of whatever they do)

Another one is the goodnights or Morning,

Her: Goodnight baby
Me: Night babe

Just keep it simple and not over the top. Show your affection in person.

 

[zekko]

01.Goodnight baby xx
02.I miss having you next to next to me xx

I would just text back "Night, miss you too".
Doesn't cost me anything.