"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to respond to a ****block from a friend?

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On Facebook, trying to be smooth.

This isn't about what I said, but how I should respond on her wall.

Richard wrote at 15:11
Awesome =D I'd guess that it would be mighty hard to make you look any more gorgeous than you already are, but I'd like to see the photographer's attempt at it ;-)
Wall-to-Wall

Stephen wrote at 17:18
Rich, you are such a brown noser!!
Wall-to-Wall - Write on Stephen's Wall

What a bastard! :cuss:

My idea for a reply:

"Steve - it's complementing. Maybe you should try it on Charlie* sometime?"
*His GF

Thoughts?

(Here's the lady in question: http://photos-h.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v248/243/113/567646640/n567646640_905999_8669.jpg)

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Sodbuster: Thanks for that advice :D I've put it to use just now
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ignore what he said.
 
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Talk to him in person and tell him to knock it off or you'll stir up some drama in his life[like asking his GF why he would care what you say to another girl-trust me, you'll trip her jealous trigger] If he were a mature man, he wouldn't play games,but if he wants to, show him how they are played.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't give out to many compliments.
Don't care about what that guy said.

ps. She's **** ugly.
 
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