"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

How to respond to a ****block from a friend?

Asteconn

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 7, 2008
Messages
122
Reaction score
4
Location
Worcestershire UK
On Facebook, trying to be smooth.

This isn't about what I said, but how I should respond on her wall.

Richard wrote at 15:11
Awesome =D I'd guess that it would be mighty hard to make you look any more gorgeous than you already are, but I'd like to see the photographer's attempt at it ;-)
Wall-to-Wall

Stephen wrote at 17:18
Rich, you are such a brown noser!!
Wall-to-Wall - Write on Stephen's Wall


What a bastard! :cuss:

My idea for a reply:

"Steve - it's complementing. Maybe you should try it on Charlie* sometime?"
*His GF

Thoughts?

(Here's the lady in question: http://photos-h.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v248/243/113/567646640/n567646640_905999_8669.jpg)

Replies:

Sodbuster: Thanks for that advice :D I've put it to use just now
 
Last edited:

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
Ignore what he said.
 

sodbuster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
2,560
Reaction score
373
Age
67
Location
South Dakota
Talk to him in person and tell him to knock it off or you'll stir up some drama in his life[like asking his GF why he would care what you say to another girl-trust me, you'll trip her jealous trigger] If he were a mature man, he wouldn't play games,but if he wants to, show him how they are played.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Perfect10

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 28, 2008
Messages
185
Reaction score
4
Don't give out to many compliments.
Don't care about what that guy said.

ps. She's **** ugly.
 
Top