"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to respond to a ****block from a friend?

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On Facebook, trying to be smooth.

This isn't about what I said, but how I should respond on her wall.

Richard wrote at 15:11
Awesome =D I'd guess that it would be mighty hard to make you look any more gorgeous than you already are, but I'd like to see the photographer's attempt at it ;-)
Wall-to-Wall

Stephen wrote at 17:18
Rich, you are such a brown noser!!
Wall-to-Wall - Write on Stephen's Wall

What a bastard! :cuss:

My idea for a reply:

"Steve - it's complementing. Maybe you should try it on Charlie* sometime?"
*His GF

Thoughts?

(Here's the lady in question: http://photos-h.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v248/243/113/567646640/n567646640_905999_8669.jpg)

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Sodbuster: Thanks for that advice :D I've put it to use just now
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ignore what he said.
 
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Talk to him in person and tell him to knock it off or you'll stir up some drama in his life[like asking his GF why he would care what you say to another girl-trust me, you'll trip her jealous trigger] If he were a mature man, he wouldn't play games,but if he wants to, show him how they are played.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't give out to many compliments.
Don't care about what that guy said.

ps. She's **** ugly.
 
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