I agree with the people saying don't say anything infact you need to find/spin another plate, ignore this one. I'm pretty sure she's looking for an ego boost from a desperate guy. Move on, if she's interested she'll come back to you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to respond(or not) to "I'll think about it;)".
- Thread starter dajinn
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
this .....sort of
my main method for chatting to chicks now is snapchat , sometimes il send girls snaps and get no reply which is a bummer and disappointing
then a month down the line il get a random snap one evening of them in there underwear
the point of the story is that chicks are so emotional there moods change like the fvcking weather
a "il think about it" may turn into a yes depending on her mood
this is the sort of sh1t we as men have to endure to get our d1cks wet unfortunately