I agree with the people saying don't say anything infact you need to find/spin another plate, ignore this one. I'm pretty sure she's looking for an ego boost from a desperate guy. Move on, if she's interested she'll come back to you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to respond(or not) to "I'll think about it;)".
- Thread starter dajinn
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
this .....sort of
my main method for chatting to chicks now is snapchat , sometimes il send girls snaps and get no reply which is a bummer and disappointing
then a month down the line il get a random snap one evening of them in there underwear
the point of the story is that chicks are so emotional there moods change like the fvcking weather
a "il think about it" may turn into a yes depending on her mood
this is the sort of sh1t we as men have to endure to get our d1cks wet unfortunately