"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to respond if she's answering your question with a question.

Mercure69

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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andreihaha

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
"Most good looking girls I've met were paradoxically insecure. And really useless in the kitchen for some reason."

If she qualifies herself to you or even responds, you might still have a chance.

But yeah, your opener makes "Nice a$$, wanna bang?" sound good.
 

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
You're question or message should include 3 ingredients.

1. sexuality.

2. innocence

3. humor

When I was really young I thought sex is when two taked people kiss. So one night I was getting out of my bass and kissed my cat on its nose and realized, I was naked. So I yelled to my parents I had sex with my cat!!!

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Georgepithyou

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U complimented her way to early and so easly, you gotta know how to back it up and be smooth
 

Billtx49

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
Don’t ask a question you don’t know an answer to, or have a good reply for. On the other hand her question to your opener was impossible to answer without further interaction. She basically put you in a no win situation unless you rose above it…

Use qualifying/compliment semi question/statements: Looking for a woman whose personality matches her great looks, you a good candidate?
Simple yes/no answer scenario

Best answer though to her What do you think reply is- Let’s find out… followed by set a meetup attempt.
Always be smooth and have a plan.
 

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Giving compliments is fine, as long as they're sincerely something you could say to your own sister, such as a neutral, "you look nice" ...or are issued with detectable insincerity, but not to the point of sarcasm. Still, they should be rare. Nothing common is valued, and that degree of insincerity keeps them off balance.

The above goes for real life, though, not for internet encounters or text.
The thing is you shouldn't compliment someone for free, it should be earnt. The online girl won't apperciate the compliment if it's given for free and right off the bat.
It doesn't matter if it's a sarcastic backhanded one either.
 
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