“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to respond if she's answering your question with a question.

Mercure69

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

andreihaha

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
"Most good looking girls I've met were paradoxically insecure. And really useless in the kitchen for some reason."

If she qualifies herself to you or even responds, you might still have a chance.

But yeah, your opener makes "Nice a$$, wanna bang?" sound good.
 

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
You're question or message should include 3 ingredients.

1. sexuality.

2. innocence

3. humor

When I was really young I thought sex is when two taked people kiss. So one night I was getting out of my bass and kissed my cat on its nose and realized, I was naked. So I yelled to my parents I had sex with my cat!!!

 

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U complimented her way to early and so easly, you gotta know how to back it up and be smooth
 

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Hi all,

So i posted this opener as a reaction on a hot (picture) instagram post: "Do your looks match your personality?"

And her answer is: what do you think?

How would you Don Juans respond?

thnx!
Don’t ask a question you don’t know an answer to, or have a good reply for. On the other hand her question to your opener was impossible to answer without further interaction. She basically put you in a no win situation unless you rose above it…

Use qualifying/compliment semi question/statements: Looking for a woman whose personality matches her great looks, you a good candidate?
Simple yes/no answer scenario

Best answer though to her What do you think reply is- Let’s find out… followed by set a meetup attempt.
Always be smooth and have a plan.
 

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Giving compliments is fine, as long as they're sincerely something you could say to your own sister, such as a neutral, "you look nice" ...or are issued with detectable insincerity, but not to the point of sarcasm. Still, they should be rare. Nothing common is valued, and that degree of insincerity keeps them off balance.

The above goes for real life, though, not for internet encounters or text.
The thing is you shouldn't compliment someone for free, it should be earnt. The online girl won't apperciate the compliment if it's given for free and right off the bat.
It doesn't matter if it's a sarcastic backhanded one either.
 
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