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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to respond if a girl is trying to keep tabs on you?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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These type of girls , if you are making plans ..the plans must involve sex at the end. Don't give her any relationship hopes , just say the right things and make her respect your need to focus on your life.
I've gone 3-4 months of not talking to a plate , she msgs ...set up a date and fvck , see her again next month or 2.
I've gone 3-4 months of not talking to a plate , she msgs ...set up a date and fvck , see her again next month or 2.
Forget being drama free. Not possible when dealing with women.
Once you're afraid of losing a woman.. she is in control and you are her beta b!tch. Therefore, you can play all the headgames you want.. nothing will change the fact that you are putty in her hands. So why bother? Just go ahead and submit now. :crackup:
While you can't control how women act or what they do.. you have full control over how you deal with it. The folly of the beta loser is thinking he can control women with his actions. The alpha chooses to be in control of HIMSELF and let the chips fall where they may with the women in his life. If they leave.. whatever. If they stay.. whatever. His life and self-esteem doesn't revolve around the opinion of one dumb b!tch he wants to f*ck.
Once you're afraid of losing a woman.. she is in control and you are her beta b!tch. Therefore, you can play all the headgames you want.. nothing will change the fact that you are putty in her hands. So why bother? Just go ahead and submit now. :crackup:
While you can't control how women act or what they do.. you have full control over how you deal with it. The folly of the beta loser is thinking he can control women with his actions. The alpha chooses to be in control of HIMSELF and let the chips fall where they may with the women in his life. If they leave.. whatever. If they stay.. whatever. His life and self-esteem doesn't revolve around the opinion of one dumb b!tch he wants to f*ck.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Why do you assume she may be stalking you? How do you know she just doesn't want to get laid because her other on call boyfriend didn't pan out tonight?Johnny1986 said:
And bro, you want to be cold to her, but then question if you are being cold to her. She has got her head spinning with just a few lines of text. What are you going to do when she puts some effort into it?
You don't have to be rude or macho or alpha or anything by not responding, just say "Yes, other plans." Not rhode scholar stuff.
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Beta men will never understand to be in control you need options,a lot of them.If you have no options you are little beta bltch.They try to learn 'game' when game is natural state of mind if you have options.Poon King said:
Thats they all fail they focus on mind games instead of focusing on getting options.