"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to respond if a girl is trying to keep tabs on you?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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These type of girls , if you are making plans ..the plans must involve sex at the end. Don't give her any relationship hopes , just say the right things and make her respect your need to focus on your life.

I've gone 3-4 months of not talking to a plate , she msgs ...set up a date and fvck , see her again next month or 2.
 
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Forget being drama free. Not possible when dealing with women.

Once you're afraid of losing a woman.. she is in control and you are her beta b!tch. Therefore, you can play all the headgames you want.. nothing will change the fact that you are putty in her hands. So why bother? Just go ahead and submit now. :crackup:

While you can't control how women act or what they do.. you have full control over how you deal with it. The folly of the beta loser is thinking he can control women with his actions. The alpha chooses to be in control of HIMSELF and let the chips fall where they may with the women in his life. If they leave.. whatever. If they stay.. whatever. His life and self-esteem doesn't revolve around the opinion of one dumb b!tch he wants to f*ck.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Johnny1986 said:
convo went like this:


Her: So, we chilling tonight?

Me: Not tonight, raincheck?

Her: K

Her: You already make other plans or?

(About an hour after I didn't respond to "K"


- I want to be a cold son of a ***** and just not even reply
- If I don't even reply will I seem really cold?
- I like this girl but were not in a relationship.
- I wanna keep her around for awhile though.
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Why do you assume she may be stalking you? How do you know she just doesn't want to get laid because her other on call boyfriend didn't pan out tonight?

And bro, you want to be cold to her, but then question if you are being cold to her. She has got her head spinning with just a few lines of text. What are you going to do when she puts some effort into it?

You don't have to be rude or macho or alpha or anything by not responding, just say "Yes, other plans." Not rhode scholar stuff.
 
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Poon King said:
Forget being drama free. Not possible when dealing with women.

Once you're afraid of losing a woman.. she is in control and you are her beta b!tch. Therefore, you can play all the headgames you want.. nothing will change the fact that you are putty in her hands. So why bother? Just go ahead and submit now. :crackup:

While you can't control how women act or what they do.. you have full control over how you deal with it. The folly of the beta loser is thinking he can control women with his actions. The alpha chooses to be in control of HIMSELF and let the chips fall where they may with the women in his life. If they leave.. whatever. If they stay.. whatever. His life and self-esteem doesn't revolve around the opinion of one dumb b!tch he wants to f*ck.
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Beta men will never understand to be in control you need options,a lot of them.If you have no options you are little beta bltch.They try to learn 'game' when game is natural state of mind if you have options.

Thats they all fail they focus on mind games instead of focusing on getting options.
 
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