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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to respond if a girl is trying to keep tabs on you?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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These type of girls , if you are making plans ..the plans must involve sex at the end. Don't give her any relationship hopes , just say the right things and make her respect your need to focus on your life.
I've gone 3-4 months of not talking to a plate , she msgs ...set up a date and fvck , see her again next month or 2.
I've gone 3-4 months of not talking to a plate , she msgs ...set up a date and fvck , see her again next month or 2.
Forget being drama free. Not possible when dealing with women.
Once you're afraid of losing a woman.. she is in control and you are her beta b!tch. Therefore, you can play all the headgames you want.. nothing will change the fact that you are putty in her hands. So why bother? Just go ahead and submit now. :crackup:
While you can't control how women act or what they do.. you have full control over how you deal with it. The folly of the beta loser is thinking he can control women with his actions. The alpha chooses to be in control of HIMSELF and let the chips fall where they may with the women in his life. If they leave.. whatever. If they stay.. whatever. His life and self-esteem doesn't revolve around the opinion of one dumb b!tch he wants to f*ck.
Once you're afraid of losing a woman.. she is in control and you are her beta b!tch. Therefore, you can play all the headgames you want.. nothing will change the fact that you are putty in her hands. So why bother? Just go ahead and submit now. :crackup:
While you can't control how women act or what they do.. you have full control over how you deal with it. The folly of the beta loser is thinking he can control women with his actions. The alpha chooses to be in control of HIMSELF and let the chips fall where they may with the women in his life. If they leave.. whatever. If they stay.. whatever. His life and self-esteem doesn't revolve around the opinion of one dumb b!tch he wants to f*ck.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Why do you assume she may be stalking you? How do you know she just doesn't want to get laid because her other on call boyfriend didn't pan out tonight?Johnny1986 said:
And bro, you want to be cold to her, but then question if you are being cold to her. She has got her head spinning with just a few lines of text. What are you going to do when she puts some effort into it?
You don't have to be rude or macho or alpha or anything by not responding, just say "Yes, other plans." Not rhode scholar stuff.
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Beta men will never understand to be in control you need options,a lot of them.If you have no options you are little beta bltch.They try to learn 'game' when game is natural state of mind if you have options.Poon King said:
Thats they all fail they focus on mind games instead of focusing on getting options.