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Made plans with this chick for Saturday night how to reply to this...

Me: Forgot to mention the having really good sex part too ha x

Her: Oh so you think it wasn't just a 1 off the other night then?! He he x
 

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It really doesnt matter what we tell you. The level of neediness, desperation, and insecurity you are showing and the pedestal you have this girl on can be smelled a mile away by her. That text was lame AF bro.

Clever text responses will do nothing to solve these serious issues which will be your downfall with her sooner rather than later if they remain uncorrected. Start dating other women and keep her in the rotation. Do not stop pursuing other women.

That being said as a response I'd say "I dont think anything...I'm just hoping you aren't going to turn into a stalker now after that..."
 
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So you sex closed this girl then made another date that she accepted yet you still text something thirsty like that ? big mistake. Next time when a girl accepts just stay mysterious/distant until date night.
 

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You're doing far too much heavy texting and getting too attached way too fast from what I've read in these threads.

You did well to have sex with her after all that teasing, IMO you should tease her back now, not be begging for sex off her while letting her withhold it from you. You want to be getting her asking you for sex, not the other way round. Or at least be on an even footing, minimum.

Asking her what amounts basically to "is this a relationship yet?" and "Can I please have sex with you again, please?" is not going to make her interested at all, she's just going to turn you into a little puppy yapping at her ankles.
 

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I've not asked her to be in a relationship, the idea from that txt was to let her know I'm expecting sex from her and not beat arojnd the bush about it. i didnt put if you want i almost demanded it from her. Then i was not going to mention it to her again or do anything physical with her sat night. i.e. make her think what is going on
 

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How about not unless you want to be just friends
I already told you what to text but do what you want.

Send that text you want to send...see how that works out for you. My bet is not very well.
 

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Best text is NO text friend.
The phone is the most dangerous tool in a relationship.
 

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Best text is NO text friend.
The phone is the most dangerous tool in a relationship.
Only if you dont know what you are doing...otherwise it can work wonders for you.
 

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No game and he can’t be helped.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Only if you dont know what you are doing...otherwise it can work wonders for you.
I prefer to disappear and let them wonder, i find it works better for me, to each their own i suppose.
 

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I prefer to disappear and let them wonder, i find it works better for me, to each their own i suppose.
I've found it leads to a high probability of flaking and/or nexting early on in the relationship.

I'm not advocating to blow up her phone 24/7 but I have found keeping in contact with a text or two over the course of a day usually works in your favor far more often than it works against you in the beginning.
 

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Made plans with this chick for Saturday night how to reply to this...

Me: Forgot to mention the having really good sex part too ha x

Her: Oh so you think it wasn't just a 1 off the other night then?! He he x
Stop texting so much. You answer with this then FULL STOP until the date.

Her: Oh so you think it wasn't just a 1 off the other night then?! He he x

You- "wear that sexy red ****tale dress you have."

Nothing more.
 

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I've found it leads to a high probability of flaking and/or nexting early on in the relationship.

I'm not advocating to blow up her phone 24/7 but I have found keeping in contact with a text or two over the course of a day usually works in your favor far more often than it works against you in the beginning.
I don't know. I've had numerous girls tell me they chose me simply because i disappeared and they kept wondering about me.
Besides, if you're dealing with a pretty girl, you're just gonna one of the 273 guys that sent her messages that day.
 

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I don't know. I've had numerous girls tell me they chose me simply because i disappeared and they kept wondering about me.
Besides, if you're dealing with a pretty girl, you're just gonna one of the 273 guys that sent her messages that day.
The key is the content not the frequency
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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The key is the content not the frequency
We'll have to agree to disagree.
In my experience: You back off, she misses you. You text, you got 50/50 chance of shooting yourself in the foot.
Challenge always wins.
 

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We'll have to agree to disagree.
In my experience: You back off, she misses you. You text, you got 50/50 chance of shooting yourself in the foot.
Challenge always wins.
Agreed. Most girls these days are getting bombarded with messages/notifications on their phone. You want to be the guy she's hoping she gets a text/message from whenever her phone goes off. Best way to do that is with distance. Then rock her world in person and go distant again.
 

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We'll have to agree to disagree.
In my experience: You back off, she misses you. You text, you got 50/50 chance of shooting yourself in the foot.
Challenge always wins.
Maybe this works with 22 year olds but you try that with older women they'll drop you like a bad habit.
 

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Maybe this works with 22 year olds but you try that with older women they'll drop you like a bad habit.
Good. I don't want an impatient, uptight, low self-esteem, lonely girl anyway.
A good confident woman won't drop a gentleman because he isn't texting. I guarantee.
 

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Good. I don't want an impatient, uptight, low self-esteem, lonely girl anyway.
A good confident woman won't drop a gentleman because he isn't texting. I guarantee.
And I'm not interested in women that bring nothing to the table other than their looks, have nothing interesting to talk about and can't take d!ck to save their life. I guess it works out good for both of us :up:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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