Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to reply to simple txt

MR MIZUN0

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Well me and his chick have been talking for about two weeks, and met through a mutual friend, she defiantly has potential.

Me: whats going on tonight?
her: nuthing, wht are u doing...
Me: what arn't I doing
her: um me lol jk

I have a feelig this could develop into something, what do i say back?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MR MIZUN0

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I realize i have to be witty ad sexual, but what should i respond with?
 

Alle_Gory

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MR MIZUN0 said:
any ideas on what to respond back with?
If you can't do this simple first step, you're already screwed my friend.


Try watching and listening to good comedy. This will help you be more creative with language in the future.

Get some George Carlin and Louis CK.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ArcBound

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Off the top of my head

"Let's change that"
 

n00bPimp

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This is a **** test, she wants to see how weak you are. An AFC would respond with "well come over then" or "lets me up and change that". But a dj will not fall for that, he maintains his frame and leads the interaction. The best response would be this:
"yeah obviously... its hot, come fan me with a giant leaf"
The point is to change the subject into something sexual and but in your own terms.
 

ARrocket

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n00bPimp said:
This is a **** test, she wants to see how weak you are. An AFC would respond with "well come over then" or "lets me up and change that". But a dj will not fall for that, he maintains his frame and leads the interaction. The best response would be this:
"yeah obviously... its hot, come fan me with a giant leaf"
The point is to change the subject into something sexual and but in your own terms.
Now this I like! :up: +1

You could also try throwing in some C&F, get her juices flowing even more.

"Hmm you gotta buy me dinner first ;) " or whatever, I'm sure you can come up with something better.
 

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"I haven't made that decision yet". It shows confidence, and no doubt in your mind that IF you wanted it... you can get it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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