"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well me and his chick have been talking for about two weeks, and met through a mutual friend, she defiantly has potential.

Me: whats going on tonight?
her: nuthing, wht are u doing...
Me: what arn't I doing
her: um me lol jk

I have a feelig this could develop into something, what do i say back?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I realize i have to be witty ad sexual, but what should i respond with?
 
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MR MIZUN0 said:
any ideas on what to respond back with?
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If you can't do this simple first step, you're already screwed my friend.


Try watching and listening to good comedy. This will help you be more creative with language in the future.

Get some George Carlin and Louis CK.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Off the top of my head

"Let's change that"
 
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This is a **** test, she wants to see how weak you are. An AFC would respond with "well come over then" or "lets me up and change that". But a dj will not fall for that, he maintains his frame and leads the interaction. The best response would be this:
"yeah obviously... its hot, come fan me with a giant leaf"
The point is to change the subject into something sexual and but in your own terms.
 
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n00bPimp said:
This is a **** test, she wants to see how weak you are. An AFC would respond with "well come over then" or "lets me up and change that". But a dj will not fall for that, he maintains his frame and leads the interaction. The best response would be this:
"yeah obviously... its hot, come fan me with a giant leaf"
The point is to change the subject into something sexual and but in your own terms.
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Now this I like! :up: +1

You could also try throwing in some C&F, get her juices flowing even more.

"Hmm you gotta buy me dinner first ;) " or whatever, I'm sure you can come up with something better.
 
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"I haven't made that decision yet". It shows confidence, and no doubt in your mind that IF you wanted it... you can get it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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