"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to reply to simple txt

MR MIZUN0

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Well me and his chick have been talking for about two weeks, and met through a mutual friend, she defiantly has potential.

Me: whats going on tonight?
her: nuthing, wht are u doing...
Me: what arn't I doing
her: um me lol jk

I have a feelig this could develop into something, what do i say back?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MR MIZUN0

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I realize i have to be witty ad sexual, but what should i respond with?
 

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MR MIZUN0 said:
any ideas on what to respond back with?
If you can't do this simple first step, you're already screwed my friend.


Try watching and listening to good comedy. This will help you be more creative with language in the future.

Get some George Carlin and Louis CK.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Off the top of my head

"Let's change that"
 

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This is a **** test, she wants to see how weak you are. An AFC would respond with "well come over then" or "lets me up and change that". But a dj will not fall for that, he maintains his frame and leads the interaction. The best response would be this:
"yeah obviously... its hot, come fan me with a giant leaf"
The point is to change the subject into something sexual and but in your own terms.
 

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n00bPimp said:
This is a **** test, she wants to see how weak you are. An AFC would respond with "well come over then" or "lets me up and change that". But a dj will not fall for that, he maintains his frame and leads the interaction. The best response would be this:
"yeah obviously... its hot, come fan me with a giant leaf"
The point is to change the subject into something sexual and but in your own terms.
Now this I like! :up: +1

You could also try throwing in some C&F, get her juices flowing even more.

"Hmm you gotta buy me dinner first ;) " or whatever, I'm sure you can come up with something better.
 

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"I haven't made that decision yet". It shows confidence, and no doubt in your mind that IF you wanted it... you can get it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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