how to remain faithful in LTR

[yogy]

hy to all,
so I have this question.How do you remain faithful in a relationship ???
I do love my girl (hb9)/she loves me (we are together for about a year).The sex is phenomenal (1-2 times a day).But my big problem is that I have a lot of temptations all day ( I am a photographer).I have at least 5-6 HB7,8,9 heating on me per day.
I don't want to cheat,but what to do?I know that I just can ignore all the girls, but it's hard.My only solution at this moment is to try threesome's or some swinging stuff,but my girl say that at this point she doesn't feel comfortable with this (she would get jealous seeing me f*cking with other girls).
So what do you think?To insist on the threesome's/swinging (and how) or is there another way to overcome this sexual desire.

 

[worship]

is there another way to overcome this sexual desire.

Castration.

 

[Ganondorf]

There is no way to get rid of the desire, but you can overcome it just by doing what you're doing and not acting on it. In time it won't even be that big of a deal

It may be hard, but in the end it'll be worth it. I'm sure you don't think about any of these women for more than about a day. You seem to put your girl above sex, which is good. Just ask yourself though, what's more important? sex with these other chicks? or a girl that loves you? (with great sex)


I guess if you just can't help your self (i.e. just give up) you could just try your best to convince her to an open relationship

or better yet, just role play

 

[ItsAllAboutMe]

Don't stay faithful.

 

[Cinamon]

At this point she doesnt feel comfortablesharing you with other people (swinging, threesome) the chances of that happening further down your relationship are even less likely cause she will be more attached to you.

Swinging and threesomes are fun, but i would never do this with a boyfriend, ltr, it would just raise so many trust issues, and i think that goes for a lot of women.

 

[playerone]

Don't cheat if you don't want her to be cheating on you.

It's a rule.

 

[joedmango]

Dont Cheat if you dont want to loose her, and you really love her, you wont hurt your Girl.

 

[drak_ool]

I used to have the same mindset "when in a relationship you should be comitted 100%" and thus didn't use to cheat on my gfs. Only after all is said and done and I look back at the opportunities I let pass me by I realize how naive I was.

Now, I wouldn't go out of my way to actively try to get a girl. But if a hot girl shows some interest in me, even in a subtle way, I ll test the waters. If it happens I just make sure to make it a one time thing, no subsequent contact etc

 

[The Decay of Meaning]

Remember your moral standards. If you've made a commitment (whatever that commitment is) to stay faithful to another person (whoever that is), you've made your word, and you should be sincere and keep your word. It's what separates shallow souls and real people.

 

[yogy]

thanks for replys

Remember your moral standards. If you've made a commitment (whatever that commitment is) to stay faithful to another person (whoever that is), you've made your word, and you should be sincere and keep your word. It's what separates shallow souls and real people.

that's verry true with me.if I don't want to be faithful then why bother with LTR? And it's not a relationship without trust.

It may be hard, but in the end it'll be worth it. I'm sure you don't think about any of these women for more than about a day.

i hope so :rockon: ... the thing is that it's my longest exclusiv relationship so I am learning new things every day