Back in October of last year, I went out with this girl ( very beautiful...she is a 9 or 10). We used to work for the same company and I used to have a big crash on her. She had broken up with her husband for almost a year. Anyways we went on two dates and I ended up getting it in on the second date but she became flaky and played hard to get after that (3-4 times) . I stopped texting her but will text her once in a month to keep her on the radar. I am thinking of making contact again and trying to set up a date but knowing that she may flake. What's your experience/ideas on gaming girls that flake a lot
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to regain control of a girl that flakes
- Thread starter lastking
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm not saying it's the case here but when something similar happened to me it was because she had met someone else in the meantime and were going serious so there's nothing I could really do that wouldn't make me look needy
I just let her go and when I eventually run into her two years after that she was all huggy and receptive.
Hope it helps!
I just let her go and when I eventually run into her two years after that she was all huggy and receptive.
Hope it helps!
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My experience is that it's a waste to time. Either she's got low interest or she's banging a bunch of other guys. Spin more plates.lastking said:
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Complete waste of time, man. Pursue better girls, this one is done. If she were still interested you'd be banging her on a regular basis.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Pretty clear that she rebounded by fuvkin' you after her divorce/separation frm her husband.
As the other guys said, if she had strong interest in you, she wouldn't be flaking.
Shoot her a text in a month to reengage and see what happens. If she bites, then set something up, if not; no biggie because you had nothing to lose anyway.
PIMP
As the other guys said, if she had strong interest in you, she wouldn't be flaking.
Shoot her a text in a month to reengage and see what happens. If she bites, then set something up, if not; no biggie because you had nothing to lose anyway.
PIMP